The Spiceful Life is a blog made to ignite my (and hopefully yours) joie de vivre of life, relationships & sex, humor and design.

Hi, I’m Abby! I began writing this blog to let the world know it is OK to express how you really feel and think without the fear of the universe’s critique. Find out more about your’s truly in the “About Me” section on the menu.

If there is one tip I could leave you with, it’s to make fun of yourself before anyone else can make fun of you.

Laughing at yourself will leave the haters with nothing left, and puts you in control of your own narrative. Embrace the embarrassing moments. Laugh with me in my journey to live life a little more spicy.

Read my wisdom below.

Recent Posts

Can I get a hot tub?!

If I’m being honest… I think that the reason I haven’t written in a while is because my life has been turned upside down for about a year and a half. I met someone during the pandemic and fell in love so hard. It was unlike anything I’ve ever experienced, but ultimately it didn’t work…

Am I the problem?

This is not going to be like my typical posts filled with humor, sex, and self-deprecation. This will be a post about my past ignorance and how I’ve recently begun educating myself to understand why I have white privilege. This is a post with the goal to educate my friends and readers about how we…


Wow y’all, it’s been a minute. I was having a hard time juggling all the things in my life and keep up with this blog. I’ll be honest – I am not a good blogger. But I just wrapped up another semester of grad school and will be taking a semester off, so I have…

It was me. Period.

A few weeks ago I posted a poll for my Instagram followers on topics they would want to read about. On of the responses was “period stories.” I’m definitely not questioning this input. This is a normal answer that any human would give. I have to give them what they want. There is one story…

My alibi.

Helloooooo, spicies! Sorry for the break from writing, but you wouldn’t believe the reason for my absence during this past month. I’ll fill you in because you know how open I am about my life. Please save your questions for the end. About a month ago, I met a guy while I was helping a…

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